This is an example of some of the things we get asked and goes to show how open we are, you can ask us anything
[Massage Client] Hey I emailed recently about making an appointment for next week.[James Male Massage] hi great to hear back from you, just saw the email where in London will you be and what date / time do you have in mind?regarding boundaries, hopefully you know from my replies that we are very flexible and happy to do what it takes to make you satisfied, that normally is fully intimate touching and more, happy for BF to watch of course
[Massage Client] We will be in Canary Wharf from the 6-12. Afternoons ideally. But we can squeeze into a slot if need be. Does more “more” involve reverse touching? Thank you
[James Male Massage] great Canary Wharf is only 1 hour from here, afternoons are great – Thursday is perfect. Yes reverse touching is welcome if you are comfortable and I am comfortable (its actually always seems to happen if it gets discussed or not 🙂 ) Its natural to be a bit shy / awkward initially on meeting (myself also) but after an hour I can assure you that we will be ‘best friends’ and after asking permission to use hands and perhaps mouth intimately on you then you will be in a happy place
[Massage Client] Thank sounds wonderful. Thank you. I’ll discuss it with my husband and see if Thursday can be booked.
It is a relief that reverse touching is allowed. My English isn’t perfect (originally from Holland) so it’s difficult to describe certain things. I’m glad there will be a meeting before to talk things through.
If I am to use my mouth on your cock, will a condom be used? Also. Might sound strange. But during the meeting before the massage would I be able to briefly view your penis, so I can prepare for any big surprises. As my bf is the only person I have been with physically.
Thank you again for this information. Is Brentwood near Essex?[James Male Massage] These are good questions 🙂 reverse touching is fine and even though I could wear a condom I am perfectly clean (and will be shaved) so suggest no condom.
Wont have any unpleasant surprises and it will be a natural session and nothing will be forced or rushed, welcome you to touch my cock once the massage starts and once you feel the need to touch. Brentwood is in Essex and close to myself – are you planning on going there also ? If you wanted your BF to have a massage with our lady (Alina) she can be with you on Saturday / Sunday possibly
I understand your situation and the only advice I can give is that as long as you both agree you both want to experience new things and are happy to ‘have fun’ behind closed doors then carry on as normal afterwards then this experience could make your relationship stronger – there is also the possibility of accompanying you both to a swingers club where we can see / experience sexual liberation and have a private room if required during the night
[James Male Massage] good, looking forward to meeting you both – do you have a photo to send please?[Massage Client] Of me?[James Male Massage] yes is that possible ? I can send one of myself and alina back[Massage Client] Perfect thank you[James Male Massage] loving your look[Massage Client] Aww ty, we are really loving your look also very sexy and cant wait to let you feel my body.[Massage Client] In the pre-meeting it will be good to discuss potential penetration too[James Male Massage] yes last week had a session with the ladies partner watching and they were very shy / nervous but by the end I asked if she wanted her partner to join in and he joined in and within 2 minutes we fully ‘involved’ with the lady very ‘not shy’ and intimate – this is taken very slowly initially until you are ready. He had to keep stopping himself as he was too excited – was a great time, if you want to know what I am like then I am gym fit – strong / but soft hands, will come to you freshly showered and clean and smelling lovely 🙂 my penis and balls will be shaved for you the night before should you decide to want to use them 🙂 You can meet me in your dressing gown / with a towel or fully dressed up to you – really dont worry about anything
[Massage Client] Sounds wonderful. I will speak with my husband about it this evening and see what we want.
I am happy to be completely nude and for you to see, taste and touch everything. I want to be able to do the same with you.
As long as it’s communicated. That includes penetration. However I’ve only been with my husband before and we may have to take out time if you’re bigger.
Anything else you need from me before I speak with my husband?
[James Male Massage] great – know we are going to have a good afternoon / early evening[Massage Client] Lovely. Anything else you need let me know.[James Male Massage] hi, just to check when you are going to be in Canary Wharf as in the email you said next week but then said 6-12 assume you mean 6-12 december which is the week after next[Massage Client] I had my times wrong then. It’s 6-12[James Male Massage] yep thats fine I will pencil in Thursday for you – happy to hear back from you when you have spoke with husband – ask me anything james
[Massage Client] Thanks. I will do. I’ll be home at 8 and we will speak over food. Very exciting.
If we have any more questions I’ll ask. I think most of the conservation might happen just before the massage though.[Massage Client] Let me know if you need anything else from me.[Massage Client] Any questions[Massage Client] Oh. If penetration happens (does it happen?) will condom be used?[James Male Massage] I like your questions[James Male Massage] I think its wise to use one unless you are allergic, seeing as we are talking about penetration – do you like anything specific – rough – gentle ?[James Male Massage] am very open minded and happy to do anything for you should the mood take you[Massage Client] Yes, we would prefer a condom. Will it likely happen after the massage?[James Male Massage] yes its possible, would your husband join in or just watch ?[Massage Client] If it’s after. I would probably prefer it hard and rough.[Massage Client] He says he’d just watch. But need to speak with him about it.[James Male Massage] I can do hard and rough – looking forward to this now – I can be a bit rough or very rough if you wanted – I want you to experience things you dont normally experience[James Male Massage] just watching is fine – some men like being teased about what we are doing but thats getting kinky / deep :)[James Male Massage] you removed your photo? you can be assured that confidentiality is assured 100% and if you send any photos they are for my eyes only[Massage Client] Oh really? I didn’t know. I thought I was meant to. I’m fine you seeing. We want you to see me naked. So pictures shouldn’t be a problem.
I don’t think he wants to be teased, just watch.
[Massage Client] Especially as it’s the first time a man will see me naked, touch me and me touch them[James Male Massage] good – its good he wants you to have a nice time while he watches – its a real sign of love – stepping outside the ‘normal’ but you will both have better sex after[James Male Massage] am honoured that you will let me be that man but i only want to please you and to make it a fun / exciting experience[James Male Massage] I previously worked in Canary Wharf – be good to go back there – is this a city break / holiday or work for you ?[Massage Client] Yes, always liked the idea of exposing my body to another man. But he likes it too. So we are lucky. I’ve never sucked or had my pussy been penetrated by another cock. We both like the idea especially with a massage.
I’m sure he will have more questions.
Yes, it’s a city break and the see some friends.[James Male Massage] happy for him to ask anything – but rest assured there is no ‘standard’ and he and you make the rules – London is great – really hope its not rainy for you when you come[Massage Client] I hope so too. Fingers crossed[Massage Client] If you have a very big penis You may need to go gentle at first. So not too rough actually. But again, this can be discussed on the day.[James Male Massage] penis size – yes am bigger than average nothing to worry about – bigger rarely means better[James Male Massage] hope you have a cheeky drink when i arrive to relax you[Massage Client] I don’t mind feeling a bigger cock. I just have to prepare mentally. Especially if you will fuck me hard (which I want). Just need prep.[Massage Client] Yes we might have a drink. I havent got much work done today (good talking to you) shame we are not coming down next week[Massage Client] Oh really? Good speaking with you too. We’re definitely going to have fun talking about it tonight.
Yes, wish we were. Really need a massage too. In general. Let alone getting let someone see me naked. And see them. Lol[James Male Massage] good – i have been in your situation and know when my ex-gf said when we were having sex ‘soon you can see me suck / fuck with another man’ I got so sexually excited[Massage Client] Oh that’s nice to hear.
I haven’t said that to him that way though. Just talked about it in conversation.
Always likes the idea of being naked as massaged in general. But I know if I see a man massaging me and he has an erection. I would want to touch and taste. This is what I told him. Never say it during sex though. I’d probably give too much away. Anyway. I’m off hone now. I’ll chat everything over with the bf. And get back to you. Any info you need, details that you need to know or you wanna see let me know.
[James Male Massage] great – its good to be totally honest its the key to be happy and to have a better relationship and better sex – good luck with chat[Massage Client] Yes it was a relief to be honest and prevent misunderstandings. Did you say you need to see me?
[James Male Massage] no I just re-read our conversation and realised the photo was removed – totally fine[Massage Client] Oh. I misunderstood. English isn’t my second language. Thought you were asking to see me naked.
I thought it was best to remove them. But I don’t mind now I think about it.[James Male Massage] ha naked is fine – kinky ![Massage Client] I misunderstood
I don’t mind you seeing me nude. It’s all good.[James Male Massage] great send me what you want and tell me if your bf is happy with the massage appointment – what is bf name?[Massage Client]: I’ll let you know[Massage Client] Oh you wanna see me naked? Haha I’m confusing myself[James Male Massage] I’m a man if course x[Massage Client] Sorry I’ve just confused myself. Ignore me.
Ha, going to gym, have a nice night[Massage Client] You too I’ll update you on our conversation and let you know if we agree on everything
I don’t actually naked photos btw. I was just confused and misread
I’ll be in touch
Hey. Sorry about the late message. Me and my bf have spoken and we prefer him not to have a massage.
And would reverse touching or penetration be additional in price?
If it’s a stupid question, I’m sorry. I thought it was included. But he’s paranoid.
[James Male Massage] hi great and no addition costs will be charged, you worry too much 🙂
I thought so. That was him.[Massage Client] I’ll catch up with him after lunch and hopefully confirm the date. I think it’s okay though.
Anything else you need let me know[James Male Massage] yeah be good to confirm it – assuming you have a paypal account I can sent you a paypal payment request and confirm date / time[Massage Client] Yes, I do. Anything else let me know.[James Male Massage] glad your husband is ok with your massage session – I am quite excited to meet you and make your city break one to remember[Massage Client] Me too. I’m so excited. Really need it.[Massage Client] Hope I’m not too loud.[James Male Massage] I hope you are loud[Massage Client] Really? Is that okay?[James Male Massage] be as open / free as you want – this is your chance to get exactly what you want[Massage Client] Okay thanks for that. I think the Yoni and penetration might be difficult to be quiet with. Didn’t know the formality.[James Male Massage] where are you living currently ? far from london? I am about 1 hour from Canary Wharf[Massage Client] But anyway I’ll be back in touch after my lunch chat with him. Anything else you need. Ask away.[James Male Massage] just get the date / time confirmed and will send you a paypal payment request so we can get it booked in and have something to both look forward to[Massage Client] Manchester. So quite far[Massage Client] Ok thanks[Massage Client] BF brought up something. Which is more for him than me. I’m more than happy not to do it. But he wanted to know if he could take a photo or short video? Only for him. But if not that’s understandable.[James Male Massage] yes as long as my face is not on the photo / video I am probably ok with that[Massage Client] I need to speak with him more about that anyway. I’m not 100% sure how I feel about it. Especially for the more intimate moments like the Yoni, me using my mouth on your penis or the hard fucking part. Maybe the massage parts. I’ll have to get back to on it.[James Male Massage] if you are not comfortable with it just say you are not comfortable with it – am sure he will understand – if its easier just say I said no photos or videos[Massage Client] I’ll see. Need to speak with him about it anyway.[Massage Client] Can we confirm by Monday? My bf and I still have a few things to discuss and we are waiting on a family member member to give us a date on when we should visit them during our London stay. It will still be within that week though.[Massage Client] If any business complications have been caused we are happy to cover them.[James Male Massage] hi, sure tell me on Monday no problem at all and no complications caused at all but thanks for being considerate – have a good weekend[Massage Client] Can we confirm a slot now?[James Male Massage] sure when would be best for you ?
Thursday / Friday afternoon – early evening best for me.
